Everything I Was Searching For…

Everything I Was Searching For…

As a young girl and younger woman, I felt a quiet unease inside of me… this underlying discomfort of something missing. A nagging, gnawing feeling for something more… but what? As a teenager, I avoided this feeling by being very busy with other...
Deeper Conversations

Deeper Conversations

Are you GOING DEEP in communication? We live in a time where many of us are drawn to grow and evolve and yet, at the same time, we carry a lot of fear and contraction… this fear gets in the way of having real, clear and vulnerable conversations with our loved ones....
The Power of a Woman’s Longing

The Power of a Woman’s Longing

For women, our experience of longing can be intense, overwhelming and delicious. We long for connection and fullness and intimacy as well as simple pleasures threaded through our everyday lives. We long for the feeling of a loving caress against our skin, for the...
Generosity & Love

Generosity & Love

Consideration and thoughtfulness are two small parts of what can have a BIG impact in your relationships. A love that is ongoing is built through many small heartfelt and generous actions and expressions. With each loving gesture or effort in supporting the other, the...
Healthy Sexuality

Healthy Sexuality

Our world today is desperately in need of healthy sexuality. It is critical to the well-being of EVERYONE.  Healthy sexuality includes space to discuss what sex feels like, how to self-pleasure, the value of being connected to our own bodies and how to know when a...
How to Inspire a Man – Part 2

How to Inspire a Man – Part 2

Respect him. These two words are critical. Why? Because I see many women (and I have been there myself) who go into relationships with men they don’t respect. And when a woman is with a man she doesn’t respect, she will try to change him, she will try to control him...
How to Inspire a Man – Part 1

How to Inspire a Man – Part 1

I was laying in bed with my partner, Rod Gordon, spooning me recently, and I asked him, “Do I inspire you?” He immediately said, “Yes, by sharing with me how you feel. By expressing yourself.” This might sound like a simple thing, but it’s really only fully landed in...
Communication & Physical Needs

Communication & Physical Needs

Communication is very important in our intimate relationships AND so is physical closeness - affection, intimacy and sexual interaction.  Often, communicating our physical needs bring some of the greatest challenge in our relationships.One partner might want more...