What is Tantra?

What is Tantra?

TANTRA! Is it for sex-crazed maniacs or spiritual seekers?Or just maybe it’s a deep homecoming to self! Is Tantra for the sexy ones or the spiritual ones? Sex-crazed maniacs are the ones who are interested in Tantra. Are they just looking to get as much sex as...
Transformation Beyond the Edges

Transformation Beyond the Edges

It’s Friday morning, the 3rd of February 2017. I’m sitting in a Melbourne café, reflecting on the last year and everything that has unfolded within me since Tantra arrived in my life. There’s so much to reflect on. 2016 was the most profound year of my life. It was a...
Loving Each Other Through Touch

Loving Each Other Through Touch

One of the greatest joys I have experienced via Tantric Bodywork sessions is that people feel love through simple conscious touch. It’s not a doing practice, it’s not busy, it’s not about forcing things to happen. I remember many moments in sessions...
2016: Choosing Stability in a Year of Uncertainty

2016: Choosing Stability in a Year of Uncertainty

2016 was a mixed year for me – not as challenging as 2014, but with some twisty surprises. From the beginning of the year, I was challenged on low bookings for events, feeling the effects of a diminished friendship circle, continuing family conflicts and questioning...
Teaching People to Love

Teaching People to Love

Over the course of a few conversations recently, I really landed in the feeling and depth of this. What we are doing at Tantric Blossoming is teaching people to love. Really and truly love. Not the romantic version, not the fluffy version. But to really love. To learn...
What Masculinity Means to Me

What Masculinity Means to Me

For many years of my adult life I struggled with the concept of masculinity, with the values, traits and ideas around what it means to be a man. I guess I rejected the mainstream idea of how a man should be, as tough, controlling, and unemotional, and I didn’t have a...
Mentoring and Friendship – Katie McMurray

Mentoring and Friendship – Katie McMurray

Unusual relationships, including friendships, colour my life. Lucky, I have never been too attached to conventionality. Katie McMurray is a dear friend who falls into the unusual friendship category.  Because she is also my mentor and I am her mentor. I know many...
Claiming Hurt Feelings

Claiming Hurt Feelings

As children, many are raised to be nice and keep a smile on their face. We’re not taught to express true feelings. In fact, they are often forbidden. But each time feelings are suppressed along the way; a new layer of struggle and disempowerment is added. Claiming...
Childhood Disrupted

Childhood Disrupted

I have been reading this book over the last 2 weeks.. still a few chapters to go, and recommending it to anyone who will listen to me!!One of my clients who has experienced very significant life trauma recommended it to me and has found it useful in addressing his...
Alchemy For Your Life

Alchemy For Your Life

Tantric Alchemy Training is for those who truly desire to live and express their full potential. Alchemy is the process of turning lead into gold. The training will help you to transform the leaden parts of your life into golden aspects of flow. You can join this...
Don’t Quit Your Day Job!

Don’t Quit Your Day Job!

“Don’t quit your day job!” It was 2002, and, in the eyes of many, I was walking away from the ideal future. I was working as a Financial Controller for a successful company in London that had offered me sponsorship. It was a very lucrative position,...