Insights 

BY MARTINA HUGHES & ROD GORDON

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 Explore how you can move from relationship conflict to relationship ecstasy

Discover Tantric principles that will support your awakening

Embody feminine qualities to create the love and intimacy you desire

Discover your masculine qualities and be the man you want to be

 Learn to transform the obstacles that inhibit love and trust

Guide teens towards a healthy foundation for future intimacy

How Martina & Rod navigate life with profound intimacy

What Creates a Thriving Relationship?

Does your relationship fuel you both, or does it deplete you?

Sometimes Love is Messy

Our humanity includes all - the beautiful and the messy, the graceful and the clumsy, the chaotic and the organised.

How Intimate Relationships Can Nourish Inner Healing

It is possible to use the clumsy, awkward, and messy moments in our relationship as opportunities to grow.

Separating From Family Members

Is separation necessary to break the cycles of heartbreak, overwhelm and disappointment?

Why are Intimate Relationships so Hard?

There is a reason why relationships are so challenging, triggering and at times infuriating. 

Transforming Sexual Shame

When sexual shame has been addressed, it is possible to experience a whole new quality of love, freedom and aliveness.

The Magnificence Of Touch Without Agenda

What happens when touch has no agenda? When touch is intended for the person to feel love and to embrace their own magnificence?

Does Expressing Your Feelings Lead To Disagreement?

3 things can turn your arguments around into deeper, more intimate experiences, where you feel seen, felt, and he

The Vulnerability of Being Seen

Being fully seen in an intimate relationship can be incredibly liberating and expansive.  

5 Reasons Why Self-Love Can Be Elusive

The path of love is not a “one size fits all” experience.

Why Criticism Never Works In Relationships

How can we truly inspire a man to be his best version of himself?

Seeing Your Woman

Encourage her emotional expression, and when it comes, ask for more.

How Do Men Navigate Sexual Desire?

A man with a healthy expression of his sexual energy uses this desire to fuel his sense of purpose, direction and vision for life.

Being A Man

I saw a lack of leadership and direction around how to be a man, so I discovered solutions, and have transformed my relationships.

What Holds Men Back from the Freedom of Healthy Masculinity

Being in touch with feminine energy does not hold a man back or make him less of a man - it makes him a great man.

Permission to Feel: An Exquisite Gift

Resisting our feelings keeps them stuck in our bodies, however when we allow them to be expressed, they can serve us beyond what we can imagine.

Who To Believe? Magical Thinking vs Alchemy

Alchemy is grounding, embodied, and gives people permission to be themselves without clinging onto a teacher or a path as the answer.

Releasing Control

Anytime I attempt to hold onto anything, life does a quick and unexpected reshuffle. Sometimes I surrender gracefully and sometimes I fight.

Embody Your Full Range Of Feelings & Desires

I was terrified of being seen for who I truly am, and yet so desperately wanting to be seen for who I truly am and how I feel...

What is Healthy Sexuality?

What if we were taught that pleasure and sensation and sexual energy are beautiful aspects of life to be treasured and embodied?

Shame Is Never The Answer 

Imagine having conversations with teenage boys where they are not demonised for their sexuality or gender? We would create more loving, sensitive and aware young men.

What Age Is Too Soon? Teen Girls & “The Conversation”

Often waiting until the teen is ready, means that the conversation doesn’t happen until after the teenager is already sexually active.

Getting Clear About Consent With Teens

Our teenagers need healthy and supportive spaces to understand consent, beyond just saying yes or no. 

Teaching People to Love

We are teaching people to love. Really and truly love. Not the romantic version, not the fluffy version. But to really love.

Cultivating a Life of Trust 

My body was buzzing with aliveness and possibility. There was a potent feeling in the air, we were trusting life to bring us the information we needed at the time we needed it.

Why Are We Redefining Intimacy?

We believe that it’s time for intimacy to be redefined.  True intimacy with your chosen partner can create tremendous healing, transformation, and lead to spiritual awakening. 

What Exactly is Intimacy Coaching?

At times I would feel like my heart was being torn in half... Relationships felt like such a struggle, and yet, I could feel my desire for "something more”...